Consent Talk

So some of you will know that I no longer drink. It’s not for any religious or health reasons – it’s just that a) I don’t actually like a lot of alcohol, and b) when I did drink, I never really noticed any difference in my happiness, confidence or quality of life so it was […]

Sexual Peaks/Slumps in your 30s (LONG READ!)

This is another one of my massive stream of conscious writing that I do during quiet periods in work. I won’t claim that it’s very linear, or indeed makes sense, but I hope you enjoy it anyway!   Lady Sharky and I were discussing our sex life, and how after 5 months it’s still consistent. […]

Dressing Down/Hello to new readers

First of all, hello to anyone who’s just discovered my blog. My aim here is to offer a glimpse into the more adult side of my life, and (with full consent) my Lady Sharky’s. I’m a very open person, but I don’t believe that everything needs to be plastered on everyone’s Facebook newsfeed. So I […]

Change of Plans (plus feedback on lingerie wanted!)

So with this blog I’ve tried to show how being in a sexually open lifestyle is freeing and a positive force in one’s life. Myself and now my Lady Sharky, as sexually compatible as two people can be, like to give off an air of confidence, body positivity and comfort in one’s own skin. And […]

Imagination Running Wild

I’ve recently moved into a new flat in a rather nice building in Liverpool City Centre. I’ve not really met any of my neighbours properly apart from the odd “hello” in the hall and on the stairways. But last night, I was waiting in the hall by the front door to the building for my […]

With great power, cums great responsibility…

So as I mentioned in my previous blog entry, I was having one of my ‘physical friends’ (which is a term I’m now using for partners outside my main relationship) round for a nice Saturday evening. I had planned to take her to an American-themed restaurant in Liverpool, but much to my great embarrassment the […]

Preparations

I’m having a more submissive lady round tomorrow. Generally, I’m more submissive in my personal life myself, but I do have a dominant side which comes out occasionally. My dominance is more sexual than BDSM-related, but even so I’ve bought a couple of tools to help me tease and torture…