Feeling self-conscious.

Those of you who know me will know that I’m not the sort of person given to feelings of self-consciousness. I accepted from an early age (probably too early) that I would never be what I call ‘magazine attractive’, so I’ve always focused on being just the best damn Sharky I can be, put myself […]

Swingers’ Profiles

Lady Sharky and I have had a somewhat quiet Bank Holiday weekend, comprised of mainly staying in and relaxing after and exhilarating night out on Friday seeing Hugh Jackman in Manchester. But we did venture out for a couple of hours last night to meet up for the first time with another couple we’d been […]

I have some questions…

I don’t claim to know everything about sex. That’s one of the great things about sex – the constant exploration and discovery. That being said, if anyone can answer these sex-related questions for me, I’d be grateful.   How do women with really long sharp claw-like nails masturbate without toys? Like, is it actually possible? […]

Consent Talk

So some of you will know that I no longer drink. It’s not for any religious or health reasons – it’s just that a) I don’t actually like a lot of alcohol, and b) when I did drink, I never really noticed any difference in my happiness, confidence or quality of life so it was […]

Sexual Peaks/Slumps in your 30s (LONG READ!)

This is another one of my massive stream of conscious writing that I do during quiet periods in work. I won’t claim that it’s very linear, or indeed makes sense, but I hope you enjoy it anyway!   Lady Sharky and I were discussing our sex life, and how after 5 months it’s still consistent. […]

Dressing Down/Hello to new readers

First of all, hello to anyone who’s just discovered my blog. My aim here is to offer a glimpse into the more adult side of my life, and (with full consent) my Lady Sharky’s. I’m a very open person, but I don’t believe that everything needs to be plastered on everyone’s Facebook newsfeed. So I […]

Change of Plans (plus feedback on lingerie wanted!)

So with this blog I’ve tried to show how being in a sexually open lifestyle is freeing and a positive force in one’s life. Myself and now my Lady Sharky, as sexually compatible as two people can be, like to give off an air of confidence, body positivity and comfort in one’s own skin. And […]