A sex-fuelled 6-month sex-iversary with a little restraint… (EXPLICIT NSFW CONTENT)

Lady Sharky and I, as I think I’ve written about before, aren’t hugely into BDSM. Generally speaking, we just like really raw, intense, real, multi-orgasmic sex, with the occasional assistance of a few toys. Nor do we conform to traditional Dom/Sub parameters; we switch as the mood takes us – indeed, Lady Sharky describes herself as a ‘Bratty Sub’, a curious personality that is somehow both dominant and submissive at the same time – I love it!

However, last night we decided to spice things up a bit. It all started innocently enough, with Lady Sharky asking me for a massage. She even bought baby oil especially. I straddled her as she lay face down and did my thing while Frasier played on the TV (hey, it works for me – I love Frasier!). Well one thing led to another and I worked my way down to massaging her magnificent arse, and got it so loose that she asked for some anal stimulation (Lady Sharky loves a bit of anal play). Well the fingers went in easily enough, so easy in fact she demanded a plug. Seeing she was a bit more relaxed than usual, I lubed up the medium-sized butt plug rather than the small,and that went in fairly smoothly too. By this point she was on her side and, with the plug still in her arse, we had rear-entry sex in the ‘Spoons’ position.

Judging by her reaction, it was very intense – certainly felt great on my end! We flipped round and she rode me – plug still inserted – reverse cowgirl for a bit, before removing the medium plug and said she wanted to try the large plug. We’ve never tried the large before; we’ve been slowly working our way up, and have said that when she’s comfortable with large plug she can try my cock. Well with a lot of lube, we attempted insertion, but alas it was not to be on this particular night. I was impressed with how much she was able to take before it became too much and she used her safe word [ALWAYS EMPLOY A SAFE-WORD IN THESE SITUATIONS, AND RESPECT IT!!!]. I think that now we now that deep tissue arse massages loosen up her arse sufficiently, we’ll eventually be able to use the large plug. But we’ll save that for another date.

By this point, of course, we were so horny that we abandoned the plugs, she demanded that I put on a porn movie for atmosphere, and we just went at it like bunnies! Last night was actually the 6-month anniversary (demi-versary?) of when we first met and had sex (yes – we fucked on that first evening. It all worked out well though, although we wouldn’t become an ‘official’ couple for another 10 days or so, which is when our actual anniversary will be), so we were both really up for celebratory sex. We even tried an experimental position, a variation of what is sometimes known as the ‘Snow Angel’, which allowed Lady Sharky to indulge in some anal play on my arse whilst I penetrated her upside down:

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Image courtesy of Women’s Health Magazine

 

We’d been using our Doxy Wand – which is always kept within easy reach between the mattress and the bed-frame so we can employ it quickly without losing our rhythm – fairly liberally, especially in rear-entry positions where Lady Sharky can stimulate her clit with it while I hit her G-spot behind. It was after she’d experienced an intense Doxy-assisted orgasm and was taking a 30-second breather, that I got one of my dominant urges. I don’t get them very often, and I’m not into anything very extreme, but I do keep under-mattress restraints on my bed (highly recommended, if you don’t have bedposts and/or are looking for discrete non-permanent restraints – we recommend these quick-release velcro ones) and a small riding crop in case I happen to be with a submissive lady. Lady Sharky also has some decent nipple-clamps as well which up until now we’d yet to use.

Anyway, I strapped Lady Sharky down, and with the aid of the riding crop, nipple clamps, a blindfold and a fairly standard vibrator, she became a good little sub. I should stress, once again, that this was all fully consensual; we employ specific safe-words and non-verbal tap-outs if things get too intense and, as mentioned above, quick-release velcro restraints which allow me to release Lady Sharky in seconds if necessary. Because sometimes they are necessary – for example, the nipple clamps became too intense for Lady Sharky’s sensitive nipples and I had to remove them (you might spot in the photos below that they move from her nipples to her stomach!).

Please, if you are undertaking some BDSM play, always have these systems in place. Discuss limits and safe-words (both verbal and non-verbal) beforehand so that everyone involved feels confident that they can stop at any time. Above all, such things I feel should only be attempted in a loving, trusting relationship – without trust, there is nothing. Whilst I do know people who define their sex life by their extreme kinks, and spend hundreds if not thousands of pounds on expensive kit, I personally believe that these kind of kinks should enhance an already great sex life, not be the basis of one. I say learn how to get each other off without toys and accessories first, and then maybe add them for occasional enhancements, but don’t rely on them. I’m sure plenty of hardcore kinksters will disagree with me on that, but there we go.

While she was at my mercy,  busted out the camera and took a few photos and videos. Lady Sharky has asked me to censor some of them slightly for privacy reasons as they showed too much of her face, and I’ve been forbidden from uploading the face-fucking videos for the same reason (I really should invest in some proper photo and video editing software so I can blur faces properly, but I’m fairly useless with technology), but we hope you enjoy them.

If you’ve just just scrolled down and skipped the text to get to this point – BAD!!! GO TO OUR ROOM!!! 😉

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And here’s a little video; the sounds you can hear in the background are from the porn film playing on the TV! The difference between this vibrator and the Doxy Wand is that this smaller vibe has speed and intensity settings which you can set to randomise. The Wand, whilst you can vary the speed of the vibrations, always has a constant vibration. And, you know, sometimes a small vibe is what’s needed for certain situations! Again, sorry for the slightly dark conditions – real sex is generally not done under studio lights!

 

 

Thank you for sharing our 6-month sex-iversary with us. Hope you enjoyed it almost as much as we did. Do let us know if you liked our content – we enjoy hearing your feedback.

 

Be Safe and Be Sexy

Sharky

ALL IMAGES AND VIDEOS SHARED WITH FULL CONSENT

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