Blowjobs

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Like many men, I enjoy receiving a blowjob.. Unlike a lot of men, I rarely cum from receiving one. You might ask why I enjoy them then if I’m not going to get a pay-off from it. Well the truth is, I enjoy the feeling of closeness and intimacy a blowjob conveys during a sexual encounter. It can also be a useful tool when I’m involved with a submissive woman.

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Yet there are still women who are unsure, or simply just don’t know, how to give a decent blowjob. Now, this isn’t generally a woman’s fault – men aren’t any better at conveying what they like during oral sex than women. We’re often just quietly grateful to be receiving one at all to complain about the quality! But it’s always nice to receive a good one, and I like to think that women want to perform as well as they’d like a man to perform while going down on them. Well if you’ve ever worried your skills weren’t up to scratch – fear not, Sharky is here to give you a basic guide!

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First let’s start with the handjob. If a guy is circumcised, then make sure to use lube. If you’re planning on moving from the hand to the mouth, then use a nice flavoured lube. If a guy is uncircumcised – like myself – then here’s the golden rule; never start with a downstroke (i.e. towards the body) – always start with an upstroke. Let me explain. When a penis is erect, the foreskin is in its natural resting place. Pulling it backwards in a downstroke from that position is uncomfortable and even painful. When you start with an upstroke, the natural downstroke afterwards will usually return the foreskin to it’s comfortable resting position.

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Now let’s say you want to get the mouth involved. Contrary to what you might think, a lady’s secret weapon is not the sucking action of the mouth itself, but the tongue. The feel of a tongue on a penis is mindblowing. Akin to how I imagine it feels like to have a tongue stimulating a clitoris. Start at the base of the shaft and work the tongue up and and down. When you reach the head, swirl the tongue around the head, flicking it with the tongue occasionally. If possible, try and maintain eye contact while you do this.

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Your man should be suitably turned on by now. You can then take the cock in your mouth. Again, the tongue is your secret weapon. Whilst you’re sucking, maintain the tongue action on the head, and work the shaft with your hand as outlined above. One technique to master is continuing the handjob while the cock is in your mouth.Contrary to popular belief, trying to deep-throat a cock is not as essential part of a blowjob. If it is something you want to try, be very aware of where your teeth are. Few men enjoy the scraping of teeth on skin (if he does, he’ll tell you beforehand). Keep alternating between working the tongue up and down the shaft, tonguing the head, and sucking.

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If you want to take things to the next level, you can get the balls involved. Lick them all over, and maybe suck them whilst maintaining the hand action on the shaft. If you’re sure your partner is clean, you can work down the perenium to the arsehole. There are a lot of nerve endings around the anus which are highly sensitive and worth stimulating if your partner consents.

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A man should always let a lady know when he’s going to cum. You should establish beforehand whether you want to take his load in your mouth or whether he should cum outside it. As I mentioned, I don’t really cum from blowjobs as I generally enjoy them as a pre-cursor to sex. If cumming is on the agenda, I like to take over manually with my hand whilst my partner sucks my balls. But that’s just me – every man is different. Whilst what I’ve described above is a good starting point, the key to achieving perfection is communication.

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Other things to try:

Sticking a lubed finger of one hand up the arse while the other hand works the shaft and the mouth works the top of the cock.

When giving a hand-job, add a twist action to the up and down motion while the cock is in your mouth.

Face-fucking. This should only be attempted if the lady is submissive and trusts her man. The lady lies down on her back on the bed, with her head hanging off the edge of the bed, and opens her mouth. The unusual angle means that her man can stand over her upside-down head, and fuck her mouth right down her throat. Now obviously this is very extreme, and the lady can hardly utter a safe-word with a cock in her throat, which is why I recommend a non-verbal safe-action. Either a tap-out sequence or dropping a loud object, in which case the man should pull out immediately.

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